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Writer's pictureElizabeth Houston

The End of Therapy: Attachment, Loss, and New Beginnings

Updated: Oct 14, 2024

The conclusion of therapy can be a deeply emotional experience for many clients, often stirring feelings of loss and separation. Attachment theory provides a valuable lens to understand these emotions, highlighting the profound impact of ending a therapeutic relationship.


Attachment theory, developed by John Bowlby, suggests that our early relationships with caregivers shape our ability to form and maintain emotional bonds throughout life. In therapy, a secure attachment with the therapist can create a safe space for healing and growth. When therapy ends, especially in time-bound settings, it can evoke feelings similar to those experienced during other significant separations.


Clients often describe the end of therapy as a mix of gratitude and grief. The therapeutic relationship, having served as a secure base, becomes a significant loss. Many clients feel a sense of accomplishment and progress, but also anxiety about managing without the consistent support of their therapist. This is a common experience, as the bond formed in therapy is unique and deeply meaningful.


Acknowledging these feelings is crucial. Reflect on the journey, the progress made, and the resilience built. The end of therapy is not just a conclusion but a transition to applying learned skills independently. Embrace this new chapter with the understanding that the growth achieved in therapy continues beyond the sessions.


Navigating the end of therapy can be challenging, but it’s also a time for growth and new beginnings.  #Therapy #MentalHealth #AttachmentTheory #EndingsAndBeginnings #NewChapter #HealingJourney #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalWellbeing #SelfCare #Wellness #counselling #psychotherapy #loss

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