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Writer's pictureElizabeth Houston

The Journey to Safety in Therapy: A Therapist’s Reflection



As a therapist, one of the most profound experiences is witnessing a client transition from a place of guardedness to one of safety and openness. This journey is often fraught with challenges, but it is also incredibly rewarding.

 

The Initial Struggle

When we first began our sessions, some of my clients can understandably be hesitant. The therapy room, though designed to be a safe space, can initially feel intimidating. Trust is not something that can be rushed; it must be earned through consistent, empathetic engagement. In the early stages, some clients may find it difficult to open up, avoiding and minimising their feelings.

 

The Turning Point

As we progress in our sessions, a noticeable shift usually occurs. My clients began to feel safer, not just in the therapy room, but also in our therapeutic relationship. This newfound sense of safety allows clients to delve deeper into their emotions and experiences. They start to share more openly, revealing layers of their psyche that had previously been hidden.

 

The Role of Psychodynamic Therapy

In psychodynamic therapy, the therapeutic relationship itself is a crucial component of the healing process. This approach emphasises the importance of understanding unconscious processes and how past experiences shape current behaviour. Initial resistance and eventual openness can be seen as part of this dynamic. The safety felt is not just about the physical space, but also about the relational space created together.


Reflecting on the Journey

As I reflect on this journey, I am reminded of the delicate balance we must maintain as therapists. We strive to create a safe and supportive environment while also challenging our clients to grow. The end of therapy is not just a conclusion, but a transition. It is an opportunity for clients to take the insights and skills they have gained and apply them in their lives outside the therapy room.


Working with clients who begin to feel safe in therapy is a testament to the power of the therapeutic relationship. It is a reminder of the importance of patience, empathy, and the deep human need for connection. As therapists, we are privileged to accompany our clients on their journeys, witnessing their growth and resilience.



 

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